How to Greatly Improve the Reality of Your Family Life

As the sun begins to peak over the horizon your alarm clock gently wakes you with a pleasant chime. You arise and begin to prepare breakfast for your still sleeping family. As you wake each child with a loving good morning, you throw a load of wash into the machine and your children quietly rise and begin to dress and get ready for school. You marvel at how your family life has changed and how quickly and calmly your children rise and prepare themselves for the day ahead without whining, complaining or fighting.

When your children arrive home from school you have a healthy snack waiting on the table. You sit down with your kids and enjoy a few minutes with them as they reminisce about their day. As they finish their snacks, your kids quickly clear the table and go to a designated place to start their homework. Now you can begin to prepare dinner because finally your kids know what is expected and there are no arguments. And you let them know that you will be available to help them with their questions in about 15 minutes.

After you have made the rounds and helped anyone who needed your help, your kids relax with activities that you have sanctioned, or free play together. The house is calm, your kids are happy and you finish your dinner preparations. As you think over the past weeks, you cannot believe how much your family life has improved.

Dinner is no longer chaotic. There are no longer fights between siblings and dinner is tear-free. You enjoy each other’s company as you talk and share together. After dinner, your kids help to clear the table, do some basic chores and start their bath and shower routine. As your kids get ready for bed and brush their teeth, you spend a few minutes tucking them into bed and kissing them goodnight. Perhaps you even read them a story. As a result of your efficient routine, you can quickly tidy up and prepare for the next day.

Is this a  far-off dream that is only found in storybooks, or is it a true representation of what your family life could be like in the coming weeks? Although it seems impossible, I assure you that this can be your reality and it can happen sooner than you think.

What Is Your Greatest Challenge?

What is your greatest area of distress as you contemplate your daily family life? Is it the organization of your home and the ensuing chaos that this causes? Is it the relentless fighting between siblings that drives you to distraction? Imagine a scenario where you are able to stay on top of your game, get everything done and your kids are not up way past their bedtime. And now, imagine a you that is not exhausted and actually has patience at the end of the day.

Stop! Relax. These are common problems that many families experience today. It doesn’t mean that you are a bad parent or that you have failed your children. It does mean that you need some parenting education that most mothers never received. Parenting is probably the most important job that we will ever have to tackle and yet most of us tackle the job with little training. So, is it any wonder that many mothers feel stressed and disillusioned with their family life?

Your Dream Family Life

But it doesn’t have to be that way. Take a few seconds to envision the type of home that you would like to have. How you would like your children to react to your requests and how you would like them to speak to each other. Now think about your relationship with your spouse. What would you like to happen between you and your spouse? How would you like your spouse to speak to you and how would you like to speak to him? How does the relationship feel? Is it warm and trusting? In general does your home reflect your deepest desires for a close family life?

Now let’s think about how your home is running. Do you have a daily routine and is that working for you? Are you able to find what you need quickly and easily? Is your home a source of calm and comfort or do you operate under stress every day?

If your family relationships and home do not live up to your deepest and most heartfelt desires, do not despair! With some education, thought and effort your can transform your home. You have the ability to work towards and achieve your dreams. Do not let go of your dream and start achieving it today.

Education can transform your daily reality and bit by bit you can create the home of your dreams more quickly than you ever thought possible.

The Right Program for You

As a mother of a large family with years of experience of raising a large family, I have many strategies to share. Parenting comes down to resolve and consistency and this can become your reality. I also have a Masters of Ed and am a special ed coordinator and have guided many students and parents over my educational career. You can be sure that you are getting guidance and education from someone who has learned and seen it all.

Whether you are looking for individualized or group support, I have a program that is tailored to your needs. In my group parenting classes, you will benefit from my leadership as well as the unique perspectives of mothers who are experiencing similar challenges.

Our “little family” will be a source of support and strength. Here you no longer have to worry about judgement and exclusion! This is a group that seeks real answers to family life situations. However, for those who need personal guidance, I have a coaching program that is tailored to your unique situation.

You can start experiencing true calm and happiness within the  next few days. Schedule a personal session with me here, so I can help you achieve the family life that you are desire. This will help us to find the solution that you are looking for and find that program that is right for you. Book a complimentary discovery call with me now.

 

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